Archive for March, 2009

Mac’s Gut Check

“Website Diagnosis”

If you thought the president went too far in firing the CEO of General Motors, wait until you hear this…

After the fallout from yesterday’s firing (well, the White House said he “stepped down”) of Rick Wagoner by the president’s handpicked guy (but the White House clarified that General Motors made the announcement) from the Automotive Task Force, there is a new web site that people “need” (I don’t remember the vox populi crying out for this) from the government.

Since the economy is still in the dumps, people are still losing their jobs and unemployment is creeping up near record levels, people are concerned.  They’re more than concerned; they’re worried about their finances and their future.  When worry becomes overwhelming, people can feel a sadness that consumes them.  This is called depression. 

And President Obama wants you to know that he cares… 

Not only does he care about your physical well-being, but he also cares about your mental health as well.  As of midnight last night, you may go online and a government designed and executed website will diagnose if you’re crying or sadness is related to your finances.   In fact, it will help you figure out if there are any red flags to your sadness or crying or worrying about your job or how you’re going to pay your rent or your bills.  If you have excessive anxiety or fatigue because of economic indicators like the stock market going down every time Tim Geithner speaks, this web site will tell you.

The site’s title (again, no joke here) is: Getting Through Tough Economic Times and you may find it at http://www.samhsa.gov/economy.

The good news is when I checked out the website, I found that my anxiety about the economy is justified.

The bad news is I still don’t know whether I should laugh or cry at a government funded website that’s actually designed to tell me how I should feel during this recession. 
 

Mac

Mac & Gaydos: March Madness!

It’s Mac and Gaydos March Madness! We don’t care about the NCAA, we’re doing the Elite 8 of BEST Mac and Gaydos moments as voted on by you… counting down to the Final Four. VOTE BELOW!

Which Mac and Gaydos moment should advance?

  • Mac does Voice Impersonations (74%, 40 Votes)
  • Toni loves Mr. Pinky (26%, 14 Votes)

Total Voters: 54

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“Schools should stop trying to reinvent the wheel”
 
Schools all over America are trying to come up with new and improved ways to teach your children.  Let’s go over the latest brilliant ideas from the not so brilliant minds of those running our schools…

Many states are in the process of passing bills that would create a virtual classroom for students where children would go online for lessons.  We’re talking 4th graders to high school kids.  Schoolteachers would use computers to assist in their instruction; they would give lessons live over the Internet to students in their own homes.  A certified teacher would work with students and communicate with them through e-mail and telephone conversations.  The lessons would take place over the computer and both the student and teacher could have the ability to use the web cam and see one another…

Bad idea junior!!  You go to school for two reasons: (1) to learn, and (2) to socialize with other children.  Kids need to learn to co-exist with other kids; they need to learn to share and play with each other.  Kids also need to learn to deal with the school bully.  Sitting at home in front of a computer accomplishes none of that! 

I don’t believe kids can learn like this.  There are too many distractions at home.  The dog is barking – the cat is tearing up the couch – the phone is ringing – the student has other windows open on the computer, looking at other web sites while he is getting “a lesson” – the TV is on – a younger sibling is running around the house playing “pretend” – dad has his girlfriend in the back room – mom is chilling with the pool boy outside – grandpa is snoring away on the coach – grandma is baking a pie and complaining that grandpa drools when he sleeps! 

Many parents want these virtual classrooms so they can keep their kids out of the real world.  I guess this is similar to home schooling.  I have never been a fan of home schooling.  Have you ever seen the National Spelling Bee on ABC/ESPN??  Those kids are all home schooled, and what a pack of nerds!!
Getting an education is great…but if you don’t know how to hang out and co-exist with other kids, how important and fulfilling is that ‘A’ you just received in your on-line English class??

Gaydos

Mac & Gaydos: March Madness!

It’s the Mac and Gaydos SWEET 16 - The Best Moments of Mac and Gaydos leading all the way to the Final Four as voted on by YOU!

Which Mac and Gaydos moment should advance?

  • Couple has a Taco Bell Wedding (55%, 57 Votes)
  • Mac and Gaydos rip Christian Bell (54%, 56 Votes)

Total Voters: 104

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Producer SEAN’s Blog: 03-27-2009

“Compassion and Law”

Yesterday afternoon we talked about an NFL player, running back Ryan Moats of the Houston Texans, being prevented from visiting his Mother-In-Law moments before her passing. While rushing to the hospital to visit his Mother-In-Law, Moats ran a red light – an extremely dangerous maneuver. Officers flashed their sirens and followed Moats. Eventually, Moats (and his wife) arrived at the hospital where the officers became extremely confrontational. Not only did they drive through a red light, but they refused to pull over. I think the officer, Robert Powell, escalated the event to an unnecessary point however, causing Moats to miss a once in a lifetime opportunity

As the officer screamed at Moats and his wife to put their hands on the car, Moats’s wife Tamishia ignored his order and ran into the hospital to visit her mother. Ryan however, was still outside arguing with the officer. What choice did he have? The officer had his gun drawn! No matter what Ryan Moats said, “My Mother is dying!” or “She’s dying right NOW!” the officer would not only not let him visit her, but shouted back with things like “Shut your mouth!” and “Your attitude sucks.” This really shouldn’t have been the case. Sure the officer has probably heard similar stories, but they were at the hospital! Nurses pleaded with the officer to let Moats go. Another officer pleaded with Powell to let Moats go. To no avail; Ryan Moats missed a once in a lifetime opportunity to say goodbye to his Mother-In-Law before she passed

Should Moats be punished for running the red light? Absolutely. However, is this the appropriate punishment? No. The officer could have easily escorted Moats into the hospital, verified his story, allowed him to say goodbye, then cite him a ticket. Instead, the officer decided to treat Moats like a 2nd class citizen.

Although Police Chief David Kunkle apologized to Ryan Moats and his family saying, “His (the officer’s) behavior, in my opinion, did not exhibit the common sense, the discretion, the compassion that we expect our officers to exhibit,” it doesn’t allow Moats to say goodbye. The officer acted very irresponsible, and compassionless. So for once, an athlete did not get preferential treatment, and for once, I’m sorry he didn’t.

Producer SEAN

Mac & Gaydos: Thursday, March 26th 2009

Should a Police Officer be fired for preventing an NFL player from visiting his Mother-In-Law just moments before her passing?

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Mac & Gaydos: March Madness!

 The SWEET 16 of Mac and Gaydos’ great moments… VOTE BELOW!

 

Which Mac and Gaydos moment should advance?

  • Does Jayme wear Men’s Underwear (73%, 49 Votes)
  • Gaydos Goes Dark (27%, 18 Votes)

Total Voters: 67

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Mac’s Gut Check

“Obama Breaks New Ground”

At his press conference on Tuesday night, the President was asked what kind of sacrifices the American people should/could make due to the economic downturn in the past year and the bleak forecast that some see lasting into 2012. 

The President responded to the question and then mercurially moved the answer into another arena to further his agenda of creating jobs, ensuring that we create cleaner energy, etc.  But the President missed a great opportunity that is in his back yard.

Last week, on the front cover of the New York Times, Michelle Obama is dressed in stylish clothes and a spring jacket with a garden implement digging up the White House lawn.  This new garden is over one thousand square feet and will have all kinds of organic vegetables that the Obama’s say they will use in the White House to feed the family, and use for special events.  55 varieties of vegetables including spinach, collards, black kale, even hot peppers and tomatilloes will be planted, raised and eaten.

And the First Lady is emphatic that the family will pitch in and not just leave it up to the White House staff to plant, tend and weed the garden.  Even the POTUS has to do some weeding, she says.

In an interview, Michelle Obama commented on why the First Family decided to plant the garden, “My hope is that through children, they will begin to educate their families and that will, in turn, begin to educate our communities.”

I applaud the idea. 

The President’s family is taking a first step in using a simple garden as a metaphor for what we need more of in this country: sustainability.  It’s just not enough to get a bailout, a stimulus package or a tax credit.  Although your elected political heroes squawk and crow at the top of their lungs about how they feel your pain and want to help like the rooster announces his arrival coming into the hen house, their remedies usually rely on taking from one group and giving to another.  That’s not sustainability; it’s redistribution.  There’s no lesson that is learned, it’s just a shift from one side of the balance sheet to the other. 

The President should have answered the question this way: “Yes, the American people have made sacrifices already with job loss and reductions in wages and benefits, but we have to get back to sustaining this country by relying on the principles that made this country great and strong in good times and in bad.  We have to re-learn to be self-sufficient and self-reliant and I am using my White House garden as an example of this.”

An old farm adage goes something like this: “Take care of the ground and the ground takes care of you.”  I don’t think the president would be that folksy as say, Harry Truman, but he missed a golden opportunity the other night by not mentioning his garden with the “sacrifice” question.

It doesn’t matter whether you have a thousand square feet to dedicate to an organic garden or you do what I do which is growing tomatoes in the backyard in pots on a rickety table.  The point is we have learned through government intervention and enabling people to become dependent on others, not self-sufficient, nor self-reliant on our community and ourselves.

As a country, we need to go back to our roots – literally and figuratively. 

Mac

Mac & Gaydos: Wednesday, March 25th 2009

Obama does away with “Global War on Terror” and other “terror” catch-phrases

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Also, a 911 operator over-steps his bounds with a kidnapping call

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And how many times have you wished you could have taken back an e-mail sent?

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“How long is too long to live?”
 
If there’s one person I love to talk about, it’s my Grandma.  She means the world to me.  I mentioned a few weeks ago that I flew back to New York to see her on her 97th birthday.  It amazes me that I’ve had her in my life well into my 30’s.  I spoke with her on Sunday and she was complaining of a terrible headache.  I woke up on Monday when my phone rang very early in the morning.  I knew the call was bad news; turned out, it was my mother calling to tell me that my grandmother had had a stroke. 
 
My mother was in tears, and completely beside herself.  She had stayed up all night to be with her at the hospital.  My mom has always been there for my grandmother.  She helps her to bathroom, makes and feeds her every meal, has to get her into the car to drive her to doctor’s appointments and wakes up in the middle of the night anytime Grandma needs something.  I don’t think my mother has slept through the entire night in years.  The only thing she is concerned with is caring for my grandmother 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  Compared to other elderly people, my Grandma is a saint….but that doesn’t mean it’s not hard on my Mom.   

Because of my grandmother’s delicate health, my parents have had to put their life on hold - trust me, they wouldn’t have it any other way.  My father is a lawyer and hasn’t had a vacation in forever.  He is a rock.  My folks were supposed to go to Florida later this week but obviously cannot go now.  This is the third vacation in three years they have had to cancel. 
 
There are many of you who have or are currently taking care of an elderly family member.  It’s not easy.  I know.  I have watched my parents do it for many years.  You willingly stop living your life so you can take care of that special person who really needs you towards the end of their life.  Our parents raise us.  We return the favor by taking care of them in their old age.   
 
I’m closer with my grandmother than any other member of my family.  I call her at least three times a week.  I fly back east to see her often.  The day she leaves us is the day that part of me dies as well.  But the more I see my grandmother hold on, the more I see my mother become physically and emotionally exhausted.  The longer my Grandma lives, the shorter my mother’s lifespan becomes…

So, how long is too long to live?
 

Gaydos